Tangled Threads and Seaweed

A little bit of quilting.... a couple of dogs.... the next airplane ticket.... a good book and a cup of coffee.... the people in my life.... and breathing underwater....

Thursday, November 18, 2004

In Absentia

How time flies! I intended to be offline for just a week during my trip to Houston, and here it is over 2 weeks later.

The International Quilt Festival in Houston was spectacular. (I expected nothing less!) The quilts were works of art and there were so many to look at! I took a ton of pictures, but haven't worked on them yet. There was an amazing variety of vendors at the show. I didn't even try to look at every one of them; I marked the booths I wanted to visit on my program and was able to do the shopping I had planned. I always go to the YLI thread booth and purchase grab-bags of mis-wound spools (they are usually less than the full spool yardage). I've gotten lots of pretty embroidery and quilting threads from them. I did buy fabric - more than I intended to - but they were things my local quilt shop doesn't carry. Among these were some new Kaffe Fassett fabrics and a kit, some black-on-black fat quarters, and some dark civil war reproductions to complete a folk-style American Flag quilt. I also purchased books, including Kaffe Fassett's Caravan of Quilts, Judy Martin's Knockout Blocks and Sampler Quilts, and Karen Stone's book published by EQ5. To be truthful, I did not see anything "new" to the market except the Minkee Blankee fabric, which doesn't interest me.

My classes in Houston were all very rewarding. Wednesday, I had a class with Bobbie Aug about antique quilt study. She is an amazing source of knowledge; I could listen to her talk about old fabrics and quilt history for hours. Most of the quilts we saw were 1860-1920, based on her recognition of certain fabric colors and print styles. It was a terrific class. The next day I had a class with Robbie Joy Eklow on Unmarked Free-Motion Machine Quilting. Wow! Robbie is a quilt artist who uses geometrical designs to fill each piece of patchwork on her quilts. (Except its not really patchwork, most of hers are fusible applique) The most important thing I learned from her was to use felt for practicing your quilting. She said that many people get hung up about "wasting" fabric to make and quilt a practice quilt sandwich. Two squares of felt are approximately the same density as a quilt sandwich, they don't need to be pin-basted, and you can play with different types of thread as well as work on your stitching. Felt is cheap, and I instantly recognized this as a technique that would give me the freedom to play with my quilting. *Light Bulb Moment* !! I was able to do some amazing things with my quilting that day, and I'm not afraid to machine quilt anymore. On Friday night, I took a class on Wired Ribbon Rosettes and Pansies and our project was a needlebook. It was just gorgeous. I almost finished - just lacking the accent beadwork on the flowers. It was so much fun to make these pretty things! Saturday was my EQ5 class day. I took two classes from Fran Iverson Gonzalez and learned a wealth of information about the program. I am very excited now about working on quilts with EQ5. This class was liberating for me also! On Sunday morning I had a class with Jan Mullen from Australia. She teaches wacky piecing, actually a type of flip, sew, cut, rotate, flip and sew some more..... Her techniques were interesting, and she taught toward the students that have problems reading her patterns because they are very visual. (this isn't a problem for me) Our class learned Orangez and Lemonz. We watched all the steps to make a lemon slice - now if these people can't complete her quilts after watching the construction of one block, they have problems! I love the style of her work, and purchased several of her "Stargazey" patterns since I have lots of her fabrics. I can't wait to get my backlog of sewing cleared so I can work on some new projects!

I returned from Houston on Sunday, November 7th and had a doctor's appointment the following morning. I had the stitches removed from my left wrist and hand from the carpal tunnel surgery I'd had two weeks earlier. Its looking good, and I have surprised the doctor with my rapid healing. I could see an improvement from the second or third day after surgery because I no longer had numbness and tingling in that hand. So I asked about setting a surgery date for the right hand, thinking the 18th might be a good day, and was told I had to do it that same week because the doctor was having surgery on the 18th and would not be doing surgeries till after the first of the year. Wow - that was a surprise. Fortunately they could do my surgery on Nov. 11th, so I spent the rest of that day at the surgical center doing the pre-admit blood tests and briefing. I didn't need another chest x-ray since my other one was only 3 weeks ago. Finally Joe and I were able to get a bite to eat and go home. I figured I better get my stuff unpacked from the Houston trip and get it laundered before I was once again "handicapped".

The surgery on the 11th went very well. I had a good-natured discussion with the anesthesiologist about being more gentle with the endotracheal tube this time. The first carpal tunnel surgery, my throat was swollen and very sore for over a week; I assume they were a bit too vigorous about intubating me for that surgery... hmmm. He promised it would not be that bad this time, and evidently he did something different because I didn't have any problems afterwards. I had been warned not to expect the remarkable results I had on the left wrist, and that this one could very well be different.... but ya know, it hasn't been. I had the dressing changed on Tuesday the 16th and its healing every bit as well as the left one did. I have a surprising range of motion, and no numbness or tingling in the right hand now. I'll have the stitches removed next week, on the 24th, and will also start physical therapy on the left hand that week. I should have had these surgeries several years ago - it has been a huge success for me.

Going to visit doctors has become a big part of my life. I don't know how old people can stand to do this all the time, because it makes me crazy. Sure, you know what day it is, but it is exhausting to do all this running around. Getting older just isn't easy or fun. The day after my stitches came out of the left hand/wrist, I had a checkup with the orthopedic doctor. That office was stacked full of people, and I was glad Joe didn't come with me for that appointment. It took over 1.5 hours total - I got my knee drained again and a different medication injected into it which is supposed to be a better anti-inflammatory treatment. Since I was still having problems walking well, we discussed braces, drugs, and other longer-term treatments. He wasn't keen on a knee brace, but told me I could try it, and by golly it is working quite well. It doesn't cut off circulation like the first stretch brace I had, and so far I haven't had any swelling of the knee itself. I also got a pair of the Z-Coil shoes like Joe has been wearing and I noticed a HUGE improvement after just one afternoon. If only these shoes weren't so damn ugly... they have a huge coil spring under the heel which provides cushioning from the impact of walking. They are marketed for relief from heel, leg, and back pain. They aren't cheap but they sure seem to be worth the cost.

After the orthopedic appointment, I hung around for awhile at the Walgreen's and at the quilt shop. I was really just killing time until 6:30, when my stitch group was meeting at Emily's house to ride out to Judi's house for our monthly meeting. I absolutely love this group and look forward to our "Tuesday Nite Therapy"; we call our group TNT for short. :) We've been working on a color study all this year, and will finish it in December. Each month had an assigned color from the color wheel, and we made simple 12" square-in-a-square blocks using the monthly color plus any other color. These blocks are traded each month according to a formula one of the girls developed, so we have an equal share of everyone else's blocks and none of our own. We are using tone-on-tone, fossil fern, batik, and/or hand-dyed fabrics for these blocks. The goal is a quilt made from the bright clear colors and their complementary colors on the color-wheel. It has been a lot of fun, partly because it is such a simple block, but I'm ready to set this one together and finish it. The logical setting is edge to edge blocks with no sashing, but I'm having a yearning to set mine on point, and make some 6" blocks (4 for a 12" block) to accent the bigger blocks. I wonder if anyone will use black or white to set their blocks since we specifically excluded those from the blocks themselves? I will have to work through this in EQ5 to get some ideas of how my quilt will look. (goodie, goodie!!!)

At our meeting, we traded our blocks and discussed plans for our next meeting on December 11, as well as what we want to do next year. On the 11th, we will have an all-day sewing day to work on a snowman wallhanging. Its really cute and will be so fast because its fusible applique. We'll also exchange small gifts and trade our last color blocks. As far as next year, we are considering moving the meeting day back to Thursday to accomodate some other schedules, and we're thinking of ways to jump-start each of us individually to accomplish more of the "fun" quilting projects we want to do - not just the "obligation" quilts we are making for someone's birth/birthday/graduation/wedding/etc. The whole reason for this group is to feed each other's creativity. I love this group of ladies, and am adaptable -I will do anything they dream up. We do need to crack the whip a little bit so that there will be more show and tell each month! We love show and tell, except we aren't showing much these days. :) We've had some discussion about doing another border round-robin project next year, with a twist... only adding 2 borders at each rotation. They could be on opposing sides of the piece, or adjacent sides. We would rotate them to each person to work on twice, so we will still end up adding 4 borders to everyone else's quilts, just not 4 at the same time.... I think this would be a fun project! I'm not so sure a couple of the girls are really on board with this idea - it might be a little bit outside their comfort zone. There is really nothing to fear - there is no way we would do something outrageous to anyone's quilts. We will still provide the starter blocks for our quilts, which can be square or rectangular, and should lend a theme to the project itself. Like I said, I think it would be fun! I should probably start thinking about center-block ideas...

I hope I've caught up with myself, at least hitting the highlights of what's been going on the past 3 weeks. Its been busier than I thought. Anyone who thinks I'm sitting around on my butt using up sick-leave is sadly mistaken. I still can't do much sewing, no rotary cutting, no lifting, and can't stand very long, so I'm not getting anywhere with my UFOs or friendship blocks. I'm able to type for a short while, but have to rest my hands frequently. Can't wait to start physical therapy! I miss working on quilting projects.


Monday, November 01, 2004

Winter in Texas

Wow! Its snowing in west Texas tonight! Talk about cold - brrrrrr. And while watching the weathercast on the news, the snow/sleet/rain is blowing sideways (yes, the wind is blowing). I think the chill factor is in the low double-digits. Fortunately the ground is warm, so this won't last long, and by Thursday it will be back in the 60's so I'm NOT turning on the heater yet. I refuse to give in to winter! (I'm very hot-natured anyway - I just turned the a/c off this afternoon...)

I've spent the afternoon surfing the internet, looking for blogs written by quilters. I'm so surprised that there are so few quilting bloggers out there in cyberspace, especially when there are so many knitters and crocheters writing blogs. I thought all needle-arts would be more-or-less equally represented, but it appears that isn't true..... but I've seen some fantastic knitters' blogs. I've also read several really interesting "mommy" blogs - I remember being so in love with my own children! - and a surprising assortment of blogs written by other people, who are either in school, angry, in love, bored, or living a life in flux in some other way. It has been an educational afternoon for me. The blog seems to have become a universally accepted medium of expression. When I got on the 'net in '95 (when we first got service in our town) I was in my 30's and wondered if old dogs could really learn new tricks! I was excited to explore cyberspace and promptly found a quilters' user group on AOL. Since then, I've changed providers several times and I've become active in online forums and communities, but I wasn't aware of the evolution of the blog, which I have become fascinated with. I'm not a techie - I don't have a web page, I don't do ICQ or other messaging, but I've always been savvy with using the internet to book trips, buy things, and find like-minded people in forums and groups. Several times this weekend I've wondered if I 'm able to learn anything new (since I've discovered blogging) without having to "flush" old knowledge from my mental hard drive. I'm only in my 40's and can't imagine what will be "invented" next! ***big grin***

I'm attracted to everything about blogs - the colors and the formats, the calendars, the pictures, and the links to other blogs and favorite websites. Some are beautiful and some are not, but there is something interesting about all of them, like getting a glimpse of someone's inner soul. Everyone has a story to tell, and they are all interesting in some way or another. We all want to share our passions with whoever happens to stop long enough to listen. Unlike a forum, having a dialog isn't the point. Bloggers seem content to freely speak their minds. Its fascinating to see what other people want to say about themselves.

When I set up my blog profile, my mind went blank. Favorite books??? Favorite movies??? These are not things I store in my memory bank. Is it because I don't re-read books or watch movies over and over again? I don't understand the point - or maybe I just assume I "got it" the first time through. In fact, the only movie I have ever re-watched is National Lampoon Christmas Vacation - I watched it four times last December. The first time I saw it (years ago) I laughed so hard, I cried; I thought I'd wet myself, and I did fall off the couch laughing. I think I watch it every year to re-live the memory of the first time I saw it.

As I have a recollection of these favorites, I'll update my profile. I like to make lists....

Day of the dead, part two: I've been in a quilty funk for the past 6-7 weeks, and not just because of the knee and wrist surgeries that have temporarily disabled me. Last March, I went to a quilt retreat in Florida that was organized by a group of quilters in an online forum. I was thrilled to go - I got to meet a lady who had become a dear friend to me. We chatted online every day at first, and then we started talking on the phone two or three times a week. Quilting was the glue of our friendship. She was 14 years older than me, had grandchildren, and lived a very different life than mine, but we bonded instantly. In fact, we called each other "sistah" in our posts and e-mails. The retreat was magical - imagine 25 quilters of all ages, from all walks of life! We had the best time! We had classes, we traded quilt blocks, we had show-and-tell, we stayed up all night talking (every night!) and we laughed ourselves silly. And what time Judy and I spent in our room was even more fun - we both drank gallons of coffee and talked till we were hoarse. We were even better friends after the retreat, but when the hurricanes started hitting Florida in August, we kept missing our connections. After my knee surgery, we didn't get to talk for a couple of weeks, and then I got a call from a mutual friend in Florida. Judy had passed away at home one weekend in mid-September. This has really bothered me that I didn't have a chance to talk to her when she was still alive. I have missed her so much these past few weeks. It would have been her birthday in November, and I already had gotten her a quilty gift. There are a hundred ways I miss her every day. So to Judy, I honor your memory and thank you for your friendship, and pray for the repose of your soul...

I have a few bad writing habits. I use the word "really" way too much. I am addicted to the use of "....." and to emphasizing words with italics. Unfortunately, this is also how I speak. (very expressively!) ***big grin*** I don't know if this is something I should try to change, or if I can get away with calling it "my style"! What a laugh.

Speaking of laughs, Joe is on his computer asking me to spell words. He's playing "Bespelled" on the MSN Gamezone. He can't even spell his own name the same way twice! *wink* He must be in deep trouble, because he was trying to use up 4 burning tiles in one word. My best score on that game is 1.4 million points, which I know he will never beat.

We are "players" at the Mirage. So says the card we got in the mail today. I think we may have spent about 5 minutes (and 5 dollars) playing quarter slots at the Mirage during the 21st birthday trip to Las Vegas in October. I distinctly remember that we were worn out from wandering the strip, following Kevin on his quest to buy $1 chips for souvenirs at as many casinos as he could convince us to visit. While he and Tara went in search of the cashier cage, Joe and I flopped down and s-l-o-w-l-y played slots and wished we had a bottle of water. Joe says we did put our MGM/Mirage player cards in the machines and got some small credits on our account; I don't remember. The Mirage wasn't on my radar for that trip in the first place. But lo and behold, we got a card from them today with an offer for $65 rooms from now till the 25th of January 2005. I'm really kind of surprised - I spent more money (still not very much) at other casinos. I didn't expect any kind of offers from the Mirage. Maybe we will have to check it out....... or not.

For the money, Joe would rather go scuba diving any day. :)

Day Of The Dead

November 1st - In the Mexican culture, today is the day of the dead. Cemeteries are decorated, gifts are brought for departed loved ones, and the families and friends celebrate lives remembered.

Now I feel kind of "duh" (stupid) that I did Cody's grave yesterday. Was it subconscious? I've always had a passing knowledge of this particular "holiday" in Mexico..... not like I wasn't aware of it, even though I have to say I think we are far enough north that this isn't practiced in this part of Texas. Still, its one of those mexican-catholic-romantic customs that gives me a warm fuzzy feeling. **smack my forehead** Not that any of my departed loved ones would think this day is significant. I guess what counts is that I did honor my darling boy. And there's nothing wrong with that...